DEAR ABBY - I live with my fiance, and we are being married in eight months. When I asked him if he would go stay with his parents or some friends on a weekend when my girlfriend comes into town so we can have girl time, he got highly offended and …
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DEAR ABBY - I live with my fiance, and we are being married in eight months. When I asked him if he would go stay with his parents or some friends on a weekend when my girlfriend comes into town so we can have girl time, he got highly offended and said he isn't leaving "his" house. I pay more than he does in rent, and I don't feel I should have to rent a separate place.
He doesn't understand girl time: drinking wine, watching chick-flicks and talking. I want to dedicate all my time that weekend to being a good friend, but he doesn't get it. I've told him that if he ever wanted me to go stay with friends or visit my parents so he could have a guys' weekend, I would have no problem with it. Am I asking for too much?
Needs girl time in North Carolina
DEAR NEEDS - I think expecting your fiance to leave when your girlfriend comes to visit is a bit much. Do you plan to make the same request after you're married? Regardless of who pays more rent, the house is home to both of you.
I would think that the idea of being subjected to one of your "girls' weekends" - the wine, chick-flicks, gossip - would motivate him to make other plans. However, because he is unwilling, you and your girlfriend should consider splitting the cost of a hotel room for the weekend.
DEAR READERS - Tomorrow is Thanksgiving, and no Thanksgiving would be complete without sharing the traditional prayer penned by my dear late mother:
Oh, Heavenly Father,
We thank Thee for food and remember the hungry.
We thank Thee for health and remember the sick.
We thank Thee for friends and remember the friendless.
We thank Thee for freedom and remember the enslaved.
May these remembrances stir us to service.
That Thy gifts to us may be used for others.
Have a safe and happy celebration, everyone!
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